The Millionaire Fastlane Book Review, Summary and Notes

 It exposes the reality of slower way in building wealth which almost everybody follows. This book exposes the truth on how the existing system works. This book doesn’t  give a get rich quick style of lesson but more of a real talk approach that will awaken you to the reality.

The Millionaire Fastlane is highly recommended.

  • Side Walker

They are the ones who just spends what he earns right away. Most of the time, even before he receives his income. 

  • Slow Lane

“Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now. There are only so many tomorrows. ~ Michael Landon” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

This is the common path in the society. Going to school and getting good grades to get a job. Climb the corporate ladder saving and investing portion of paycheck until you retire at old age. 

Here are the traps of slow lane:

  1. It looks safe even its not really safe to have a job
  2. Trading your time for money
  3. The belief that it is hard to get rich is being fed
  • The process and not the event

It was highlighted that most people think that rich people had it like overnight. The media and society focuses on the event without highlighting what happened in the background. The long process is not being shown. Building wealth is a process and not just an event. 

“All events of wealth are precluded by process, a backstory of trial, risk, hard work, and sacrifice. If you try to skip process, you’ll never experience events.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

  • Commitment

Be committed and not just interested. It takes hard work. It really takes intentionality and it takes massive consistent action up until you’ve full grown your money tree.

“There’s a profound difference between interest and commitment. Interest reads a book; commitment applies the book 50 times.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

  • Money Tree

The book encourages us to create income generating assets or investments that generates income without trading our time. Here are the different systems that works like money tree:

  1. Rental System – renting out properties or through licensing
  2. Distribution system – connecting buyers and sellers
  3. Software system – charging people on using the system
  4. Content system – creating content like book and you tube videos
  • Consumer to producer

We were trained and exposed by the media and the society into being a consumer. We are always thinking what to buy. But the good mindset in attaining wealth is to have producer mindset. Always think of how can your produce something of value to sell.

“Instead of digging for gold, sell shovels. Instead of taking a class, offer a class. Instead of borrowing money, lend it. Instead of taking a job, hire for jobs. Instead of taking a mortgage, hold a mortgage. Break free from consumption, switch sides, and reorient to the world as producer.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

  • Fast Lane Commandments

Control

  • We want to be in control. Our business should not be at the mercy of the other. MJ Demarco’s example is MLM wherein the distributors have not much control in the real business. One policy change could hardly affect their business. Another good example is relying your business in Youtube. 

Entry

  • The harder the barrier of entry the better. Having barrier of entry in to your business means less competitor will take over your business.

Need

  • Provides value that solves problems. It is a common advice to do business on what you are passionate about. MJ Demarco discusses that the most important consideration is it should solve other people’s problems. Soon your passion will subside.

“Stop thinking about business in terms of your selfish desires, whether it’s money, dreams or “do what you love.” Instead, chase needs, problems, pain points, service deficiencies, and emotions.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

Time

  • Your business should have a system on its own wherein it can operate or generate income without you trading your time. It is like your business is in auto mode even if you are not around. 

“Time isn’t a commodity, something you pass around like a cake. Time is the substance of life. When anyone asks you to give your time, they’re really asking for a chunk of your life. ~ Antoinette Bosco” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

Scale

  • Your business should be able to scale. Meaning, you can grow it exponentially with no or very few barriers. For example, having a restaurant whose the only chef is the business owner is not scaleable because it can only serve so much in little time. But having a software business wherein you can get as many clients as you can is a very scalable business.

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Quotes from the book:The Millionaire Fastlane

“I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it. ~ Thomas Jefferson” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“The brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out; the brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. The brick walls are there to stop the people who don’t want it badly enough. They are there to stop the other people!” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“I awoke to the epiphany that I was the driver of my life and my problems were the consequences of my choices.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“If millions seek you, you will be paid millions.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“If you have to think about “affordability,” you can’t afford it because affordability carries conditions and consequences.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“My doctor’s preferred method of attack was prescription drugs. I refused because I wanted to fix problems, not mask symptoms.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Value your time poorly and you will be poor. When time is wasted as a lifestyle choice you will be stranded in places you don’t want to be.

Take a look around. How do your friends, family, and peers value their time? Are they standing in line to save four bucks? Are they driving 40 minutes to save 10 dollars? Are they parked on the sofa anxiously waiting to see who wins Dancing With the Stars?” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“The owner of an idea is not he who imagines it, but he who executes it.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“A market is never saturated with a good product ,but it is very quickly saturated with a bad one. ~ Henry Ford” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“For “do what you love” to work, you need two things: 1) Your love must solve a need and 2) You must be exceptional at it.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Wealth eludes most people because they are preoccupied with events while disregarding process. Without process, there is no event.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“The King: Your execution – The Queen: Your marketing – The Bishop: Your customer service – The Knight: Your product – The Rook: Your people – The Pawn: Your ideas.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“You could own the best hotel in the world located on the best beach in California, but if customers are treated like inconveniences and requests go unfulfilled, they won’t return.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Someday is dangerous and paralyzing. It traps you in land of Nowheresville. Someday is here, now, pristine and clean and begging no allegiance for tomorrow. The” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Opportunity drives through your neighborhood frequently, and when it does, you have to grab that bitch. Evaluate” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“The global recession has exposed the Slowlane for the fraud it is. With no job, the plan fails. When the stock market loses 50% of your savings, the plan fails. When a housing crisis erases 40% of your illiquid net worth in one year, the plan fails. The plan is a failure because the plan is based on time and factors you can’t control. Unfortunately, millions of people have faithfully invested decades into the plan only to discover the ugly truth: The Slowlane is risky and insufferably impotent.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“The average American watches more than four hours of TV each day. In a 65-year life, that person will have spent nine years glued to the tube. Why? Simple. Life sucks. Life needs an escape. Life is no good.

Show me someone who spends hours online playing Mafia Wars or Farmville, and I’ll show you someone who probably isn’t very successful. When life sucks, escapes are sought. I don’t need television because I invested my time into a real life worth living, not a fictitious escape that airs every Tuesday night at 8 p.m.

Again, majority thinking yields mediocrity, and for that majority, time is an asset that is undervalued and mindlessly squandered.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Change creates millionaires. Those who observe and take advantage of change will be the new millionaires and billionaires.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Debt needs a constant drip of blood, and that blood comes from your gas tank of life: time. And since time is fixed, an increase in indentured time comes from only one source: your free time.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Lead generation services often provide a service to consumers while simultaneously aggregating a non-homogeneous industry. This is what I did for the limousine industry. I pooled a highly fragmented industry into one centralized source, brought consumers into the mix, and sold that consumer information to limo companies.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“People care about what your business can do for them. How will it help them? What’s in it for them? Will it solve their problem? Make their life easier? Provide” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

“Today is the starting line for the rest of your life. Yes, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. The problem with the past is that we remember memories we shouldn’t, and we don’t forget what we should“ If your eyes are stuck in the rearview mirror, you’re stuck in the past. If you’re stuck in the past, you’re not looking ahead. If you’re not looking ahead, you can’t hit the mark of your future.

The universe doesn’t care about your past. It is blind to it. The universe doesn’t care that I wore pink pants in high school. (Hey, remember Miami Vice?) The universe doesn’t care that I got in a fight with Francis Franken and lost. The universe doesn’t care about your MBA from UCLA, your drug-dealing father, or that you wet your bed in junior high. The universe simply doesn’t care. One person and one person only weaponizes past transgressions: you.” 

― M.J. DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane

Your Money or Your Life Book Review, Summary and Notes

This book will change your relationship with money for the better. You will use it for what it is meant to be. 

I highly recommend that you read this book: Your Money or Your Life 9 Steps to Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Achieving Financial Independence by Vicki Robbin and Joe Dominguez

Working for a Living

In history, mankind go to work to make a living. However, in modern times, we unknowingly dedicate our lives in our work. We wake up early, prepare, commute and even after arriving at our house, we decompress from work. We even introduce ourselves as our profession or work. We do not say, I do plumbing but instead I am a plumber. It appears that instead of working for a living we are working for a dying.

Concept of enough

“If you live for having it all, what you have is never enough.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“He who knows he has enough is rich.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

Our rate of satisfaction or fulfilment decreases from the material possessions we buy after we exceed the level of sufficiency. The fulfilment is greatest from survival up to comfort but diminishes when we acquire things for luxury. It is called fulfilment curve. Based on research, in America it is earning $75,000 per year.  I can relate this to the Psychology of Money, savings = income less ego. There are purchases that after the survival and comfort, the reason for buying is for the perceived respect and admiration from other people.

Life Energy

“Money is something you trade your life energy for. You sell your time for money. It doesn’t matter that Ned over there sells his time for a hundred dollars and you sell yours for twenty dollars an hour. Ned’s money is irrelevant to you. The only real asset you have is your time. The hours of your life.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Money is something we choose to trade our life energy for.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

Money equals life energy.  Life energy is time plus energy. Every time we buy material possessions we should compare its price to our  hourly rate. If your hourly rate is $10 and the price of a camera is $1000, then the life energy equivalent of the camera is 100 hours. Is that worth it?

Guiding questions:

  1. “Did I receive fulfillment in proportion to the life energy spent?”
  2. “Is this expenditure of life energy aligned with my values?”
  3. “How might the expenditure change if I didn’t have to work for money?”

“Waste lies not in the number of possessions but in the failure to enjoy them.” 

― Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“The key is remembering that anything you buy and don’t use, anything you throw away, anything you consume and don’t enjoy is money down the drain, wasting your life energy and wasting the finite resources of the planet. Any waste of your life energy means more hours lost to the rat race, making a dying. Frugality is the user-friendly and earth-friendly lifestyle.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

Crossover point

The objective, just like on what was discussed in Rich Dad Poor Dad book, is to accumulate income generating businesses and investments like interest income, dividend, capital gains, rents and royalties. When the income from those income generating assets meet the monthly expenses, that is called cross over point. We should aim to reach that point of financial freedom.

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Quotes from the book

“Frugality is enjoying the virtue of getting good value for every minute of your life energy and from everything you have the use of.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“It is easier to tell our therapist about our sex life than it is to tell our accountant about our finances.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“put your life in service to your values rather than putting your time in service to money.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“We shift from comparing ourselves to others to considering our real needs and desires. We shift from “more” to “enough” and ultimately get more of what money can’t buy. Priceless.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“four rules for getting off the diet-go-round: Eat when you’re hungry. Eat exactly what your body wants. Eat each bite consciously. Stop when your body has had enough.1 Very simple. All you have to do is be conscious” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Along with racism and sexism, our society has a form of caste system based on what you do for money. We call that jobism, and it pervades our interactions with one another on the job, in social settings and even at home. Why else would we consider housewives second-class citizens? Or teachers lower status than doctors even though their desk-side manner with struggling students is far better than many doctors’ bedside manner with the ill and dying?” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“The only real asset you have is your time. The hours of your life.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“As you take your eyes off the false prize (of more, better, and different stuff), you put them on the real prizes: friends, family, sharing, caring, learning, meeting challenges, intimacy, rest, and being present, connected, and respected. In other words, those best things in life that are free. Like all things natural, building this wealth takes time, attention, patience, and reciprocity (that volleying of giving and receiving that builds relationships).” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“What kind of society turns its young people into a profit center for the debt industry?” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“training away the money-wasting habits” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Consumption seems to be our favorite high, our nationally sanctioned addiction, the all-American form of substance abuse.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“You’ll flatten your debt and develop a natural resistance to spending more than you have for things you don’t want to impress people you don’t like (to paraphrase Robert Quillen).” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“A 2015 US Federal Reserve Board report found that 47 percent of Americans would have to borrow money or sell something to cover a $400 emergency expense.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Endless desire is one of the pitfalls of human nature, and one of the first things you need to cure if you want to get ahead more quickly.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Money is not really the thing you’re after—after all, would you lock yourself in a dark, silent box forever in exchange for becoming a billionaire?” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“happiness increases heart health, strengthens the immune system, combats stress, reduces aches and pains, reduces chronic illness, and lengthens our lives.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Did you ever think about that?” Joe would ask. “That you have a relationship with money?” He’d get on his knees, begging money to love him. He’d exhibit mock terror, shrinking from the evil hundred-dollar bill. He’d hold it out like a carrot and run around after it, reaching but never grasping it. “This is what your relationship with money looks like! Think about it. If you were money, would you hang out with you?” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. —Howard Thurman, philosopher and theologian” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“One day a young girl watched her mother prepare a ham for baking. At one point the daughter asked, “Mom, why did you cut off both ends of the ham?” “Well, because my mother always did,” said the mother. “But why?” “I don’t know—let’s go ask Grandma.” So they went to Grandma’s and asked her, “Grandma, when you prepared the ham for baking, you always cut off both ends—why did you do that?” “My mother always did it,” said Grandma. “But why?” “I don’t know—let’s go ask Great-grandma.” So off they went to Great-grandma’s. “Great-grandma, when you prepared the ham for baking, you always cut off both ends—why did you do that?” “Well,” Great-grandma said, “the pan was too small.” Just as we can get caught in outmoded habit-patterns passed down through generations, we can also get trapped by our habitual thinking just as much as—and just as erroneously as—people who maintained until recently that the earth was visibly and verifiably flat. We also get stuck in unconscious and invisible boxes that limit our ability to think in new ways.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Passion, pain, what’s at hand—these are doorways to finding a purpose beyond material acquisition.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“But hey, what’s another $20,000 when I have a full-time job?” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

“Waste lies not in the number of possessions but in the failure to enjoy them.” 

― Vicki Robin, Your Money or Your Life

The Psychology of Money Book Review, Summary and Notes

This book on money is not the usual personal finance book that gives exact step by step guide on how to budget and invest money. It shares different stories that makes you ponder deeply on your own relationship, behavior and psychology about money.

I highly recommend that you buy and read this book: The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed and happiness

Different Background

“Some people are born into families that encourage education; others are against it. Some are born into flourishing economies encouraging of entrepreneurship; others are born into war and destitution. I want you to be successful, and I want you to earn it. But realize that not all success is due to hard work, and not all poverty is due to laziness. Keep this in mind when judging people, including yourself.”  ― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Each and everyone has different background and collective experiences which have impact on financial decisions. Human beings are emotional creatures. Behavior matters more than the intelligence when it comes to winning the money game. Reasonableness over rationality will also keep you on the money game. 

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Luck and Risk

Expect bad money decisions in your lifetime. Even the best financial plan don’t always go as planned.

Bills Gates when given an opportunity to study in a school with a computer. He learn and practiced how to code. We may assess the result of a person by looking at the broader perspective: Luck + Skills + Unfair advantage

“Growth is driven by compounding, which always takes time. Destruction is driven by single points of failure, which can happen in seconds, and loss of confidence, which can happen in an instant.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Give importance on not screwing up than making more money. I also learned this in stock market investing. We can always take a bet or invest but if we lose all our chips then we cannot invest anymore. Always think risk first annd think long term. The longer time you invest the bigger the return because of compounding. Warren Buffet ‘s 99.9% of his wealth came from compounding interest. 

Never Enough

Why there are people even if they haveenough can never be satisfied?

 Capitalism is great at creating wealth and creating envy. There will always be someone better, bigger and smarter. Capitalism lets everyone make money with no limit. Envy is a game you cannot win so just don’t join that game. Focus on what you can control by identifying what really makes you happy on your own terms. Learn to say enough.

“There is no reason to risk what you have and need for what you don’t have and what you don’t need.”― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Freedom

“Money’s greatest intrinsic value—and this can’t be overstated—is its ability to give you control over your time.” 

 ― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Money cannot buy you happiness but money can give more freedom in your life that can bring happiness. We can always earn more money but we have limited time. With money, you can buy time by leveraging other people’s time like delegating work that you do not want to do and focus on doing work that you truly enjoy. 

“Savings can be created by spending less. You can spend less if you desire less. And you will desire less if you care less about what others think of you.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Saving equals income less ego. You can reassess your spending and identify which spending are based on ego. Saving is something you can control. Saving money gives more freedom. Just like what Navy Seal Jocko Willink said, “Discipline equals freedom”. Save as much as you can. Many people are tied to a job that they don’t like because they have to pay for debt on their fancy house/car that they don’t really need just to impress other people. 

Wealth is what you don’t see

“Use money to gain control over your time, because not having control of your time is such a powerful and universal drag on happiness. The ability to do what you want, when you want, with who you want, for as long as you want to, pays the highest dividend that exists in finance.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Be nicer and less flashy. No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are. You might think you want a fancy car or a nice watch. But what you probably want is respect and admiration. And you’re more likely to gain those things through kindness and humility than horsepower and chrome.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Man in the Car Paradox is about a certain amount of intangible status you can get on material possessions like a fancy car. People in general don’t care or impressed on the owner of material possessions but instead people are just impressed on the material possession itself. People decides on their purchases based on the respect and admiration they think they can get from others. The real magnet of respect and admiration are humility, kindness and empathy.

“Spending money to show people how much money you have is the fastest way to have less money.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

There are a lot of people that over-leveraged themselves to create an appearance of wealth but in reality they didn’t have money in the bank or they are just one paycheck away.

Everything changes

“Planning is important, but the most important part of every plan is to plan on the plan not going according to plan.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

As time goes by, our preferences and desires change so do our finances need to adapt. Avoid extreme financial commitments for your future self. 

Quotes from the book The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Things that have never happened before happen all the time.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Independence, to me, doesn’t mean you’ll stop working. It means you only do the work you like with people you like at the times you want for as long as you want.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“doing something you love on a schedule you can’t control can feel the same as doing something you hate.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

I love Voltaire’s observation that “History never repeats itself; man always does.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Luck and risk are both the reality that every outcome in life is guided by forces other than individual effort. They are so similar that you can’t believe in one without equally respecting the other. They both happen because the world is too complex to allow 100% of your actions to dictate 100% of your outcomes. They are driven by the same thing: You are one person in a game with seven billion other people and infinite moving parts. The accidental impact of actions outside of your control can be more consequential than the ones you consciously take.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Napoleon’s definition of a military genius was, “The man who can do the average thing when all those around him are going crazy.” 

― Mo― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Less ego, more wealth. Saving money is the gap between your ego and your income, and wealth is what you don’t see. So wealth is created by suppressing what you could buy today in order to have more stuff or more options in the future. No matter how much you earn, you will never build wealth unless you can put a lid on how much fun you can have with your money right now, today.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“To grasp why people bury themselves in debt, you don’t need to study interest rate: you need to sturdy the history of greed , insecurity and optimism.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“You are one person in a game with seven billion other people and infinite moving parts. The accidental impact of actions outside of your control can be more consequential than the ones you consciously take.” 

―― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Bill Gates once said, “Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces smart people into thinking they can’t lose.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Compounding works best when you can give a plan years or decades to grow. This is true for not only savings but careers and relationships. Endurance is key. And when you consider our tendency to change who we are over time, balance at every point in your life becomes a strategy to avoid future regret and encourage endurance.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“A mindset that can be paranoid and optimistic at the same time is hard to maintain, because seeing things as black or white takes less effort than accepting nuance. But you need short-term paranoia to keep you alive long enough to exploit long-term optimism. Jesse Livermore figured this out the hard way.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Using your money to buy time and options has a lifestyle benefit few luxury goods can compete with.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“Daniel Kahneman once told me about the stories people tell themselves to make sense of the past. He said: Hindsight, the ability to explain the past, gives us the illusion that the world is understandable. It gives us the illusion that the world makes sense, even when it doesn’t make sense. That’s a big deal in producing mistakes in many fields.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

“The customer is always right” and “customers don’t know what they want” are both accepted business wisdom. The line between “inspiringly bold” and “foolishly reckless” can be a millimeter thick and only visible with hindsight.” 

― Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money: Timeless lessons on wealth, greed, and happiness

Rich Dad Poor Dad Book Summary and Notes

Background

This book explains how rich people think and how rich people become rich and keep on getting richer. The author Robert Kiyosaki shared these lessons and stories of growing up with two dads. The poor dad is his biological, educated and government employed father while the rich dad is the father of his best friend who is into entrepreneurship and investing. 

I highly recommend that you read the book Rich Dad, Poor Dad.

Big Ideas

  • Greatest Wealth

Many people are too focused on money but as Robert Kiyosaki said we need to focus on increasing our greatest wealth. The greatest wealth is our financial intelligence. We must keep on investing in our financial intelligence. When we do that, we will be more valuable, be flexible, be open minded and we will grow richer. We need to prioritize financial literacy.

  • Thoughts and words

Our thought and words are powerful. We need to have a victor mindset and not a victim mindset. We have the power to choose our words, then choose the words of victor. Here are some of the examples:

Instead of saying “The reason Im not rich is I have kids”, say “The reason that I have to be rich is because I have kids.” Instead of saying, “Don’t take risk”, say “I will learn to manage risk”. Instead of saying, I”I can’t afford that”, say “How can I afford that.”

  • Working for money

Most people are staying in their job because of fear. Fear of not making it on their own. Fear that they may not be able to pay their bills. And when things go tough in their job, they blame and complain other people. 

There is nothing wrong about having a job. However, according to MJ Demarco, in his book Millionaire Fastlane, working on a job for money is a slow lane to wealth. Trading our time for money is not enough to achieve financial freedom faster because our time is limited.

Here is the guiding question that we may ask to ourselves:

What would you dare to do if you are guaranteed to succeed?

Go out and always do what you are afraid to do as when you do it often, the fear will vanish.

Another emotion that take over is greed. When poor people received income, they used it in buying things they don’t need to impress people that doesn’t even care.

  • Accumulate Assets

The rich people focus on acquiring assets. Rich Dad Poor Dad book taught about the right assets that rich people acquire. Those are income generating assets. Before, I thought buying a house is buying an asset. I learned that a house can only be classified as an asset it generates income such as being used as rental property. But if a house is being used by the owner, it is more of a liability as owning it has related expenses such as interest payments on mortgage and repairs. On the side note, this is a different identification of assets and liabilities in accounting. 

In Rich Dad Poor Dad’s definition:

Asset is something that puts money in my pocket. Liability takes money out of my pocket.

In addition, purchasing a house requires use of large amount of cash as down payment which could have been used in starting a business or in investments. This is called opportunity cost.

I am not saying that buying a house is a bad decision. I agree that it is a personal decision. You may also check my other blog post on guide in buying a house to know if it is worthy to 

buy a house than to rent and vice versa.

To sum it up, the rich gets richer because they focus on acquiring income generating assets. 

Wealth is Time

How long could you survive if you stop working?

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Quotes

from Robert Kiyosaki, Rich Dad Poor Dad

” The poor and middle class work for money. The Rich have money work for them.”

“God will not have his work made manifest by cowards.”

“I want to teach you to master the power of money. Not be afraid of it. And they don’t teach that in school.”

“ If you don’t learn it, you become a slave to money.”

“I am concerned that too many people are focused too much on money and not on their greatest wealth, which is their education. If people are prepared to be flexible, keep an open mind and learn, they will grow richer and richer through the changes. If they think money will solve the problems, I am afraid those people will have a rough ride. Intelligence solves problems and produces money. Money without financial intelligence is money soon gone.”

“This pattern of treating your home as an investment and the philosophy that a pay raise means you can buy a larger home or spend more is the foundation of today’s debt-ridden society.”

“In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk.” 

“Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part of the process of success. People who avoid failure also avoid success.” 

“An intelligent person hires people who are more intelligent than he is.”

“Leadership is what you need to learn next” 

“The poor and the middle class work for money. The rich have money work for them.” 

“I can’t afford it’ shut down your brain. it didn’t have to think anymore. besides, it also brings up sadness. a helplessness that leads to despondency and often depression.

‘How can I afford it?’ opened up the brain. forced it to think and search fro answers. it also opens up possibilities, excitement and dreams and created a stronger mind 

and dynamic spirit.” 

“Most people fail to realize that in life, it’s not how much money you make, it’s how much money you keep.” 

“Excessive fear and self-doubt that were the greatest detractors of personal genius.” 

“Stop blaming me, thinking I’m the problem. If you think I’m the problem, then you have to change me. If you realize that you’re the problem, then you can change yourself, learn something and grow wiser. Most people want everyone else in the world to change themselves. Let me tell you, it’s easier to change yourself than everyone else.” 

“In the real world outside of academics, something more than just grades is

required. I have heard it called “guts,” “chutzpah,” “balls,” 

“audacity,” “bravado,” “cunning,” “daring,” “tenacity” and

“brilliance.” This factor, whatever it is labeled, ultimately decides

one’s future much more than school grades.” 

“We all have tremendous potential, and we all are blessed with gifts. Yet, the one thing that holds all of us back is some degree of self-doubt. It is not so much the lack of technical information that holds us back, but more the lack of self-confidence.” 

“I find so many people struggling, often working harder, simply because they cling to old ideas. They want things to be the way they were; they resist change. I know people who are losing their jobs or their houses, and they blame technology or the

economy or their boss. Sadly they fail to realize that they might be the problem. Old ideas are their biggest liability. It is a liability simply because they fail to realize that while that idea or way of doing something was an asset yesterday, yesterday is gone.” 

Be In Sync With Nature

I have observed the works of nature. Such as waves in stock market, the elliot wave principle. It is manifesting as well in real waves.

I have tried surfing and learned about these 3 waves. I was stoked to realize that the elliot wave principle also works in nature. I ponder about it and I realise that since the players of stock markets are human, we human are part of nature. We humans are one with the nature. That is why the same principle in real waves can be observed in the stock market.

When you see these observations in nature you can ride the waves or you can go with the nature. Like in stock market, go with the trend. Or as we hear it often, go with the flow. The path of least resistance.

It is important to go out with nature to get in sync with it. This is also connected to the teachings in Taoism. The Wu Wei, art of letting go.

Going against with the nature is only an ego.

I have also noted the same in Stoicism as Seneca said “Man’s ideal state is realized when he has fulfilled the purpose for which he is born. And what is it that reason demands of him? Something very easy—that he live in accordance with his own nature.”

Agree and leverage with the nature.

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How Not to Be Guilty

I learned in Mari Kondo book about organizing how to let go of gifts that you received. If you are decluttering, it is hard to let go of gifts because of guilt feeling.

 If you give a bike to a child and that child grew up already, will you feel bad if that kid doesn’t use the bike anymore? We give gifts to make the recipient happy and feel loved. If the gift you received doesn’t make you happy anymore then there should be no guilt on letting that go. That gift has served its purpose already. The giver of gift doesn’t want you to imprison yourself to that gift.

This may be applicable in relationship. We do not do good to other person just to set expectations of what we wanted them to do to us.  If we do good to others, then let it be done and serve its purpose. If someone does good to you, don’t feel guilty if you cannot return the favor. Just be grateful and better to pay it forward.

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Accumulate Assets

The rich people focus on acquiring assets. Rich Dad Poor Dad book taught about the right assets that rich people acquire. Those are income generating assets. Before, I thought buying a house is buying an asset. I learned that a house can only be classified as an asset when it generates income such as being used as rental property. But if a house is being used by the owner, it is more of a liability as it has related expenses such as interest payments on mortgage and repairs. On the side note, this is a different identification of assets and liabilities in accounting. 

In addition, purchasing a house requires use of large amount of cash as down payment which could have been used in starting a business or in investments. This is called opportunity cost.

I am not saying that buying a house is a bad decision. I agree that it is a personal decision. You may also check my other blog post on guide in buying a house to know if it is worthy to buy a house than to rent and vice versa.

To sum it up, acquire assets that generates income. I invite you to join me in my newsletter for free, just visit KevinUmali.com/free

Greatest Wealth

Many people are too focused on money but as Robert Kiyosaki said we need to focus on increasing our greatest wealth. The greatest wealth is our financial intelligence. We must keep on investing in our financial intelligence. When we do that, we will be more valuable, be flexible, be open minded and we will grow richer. We need to prioritize financial literacy.

Working for Money: Slow Lane

Most people are staying in their job because of fear. Fear of not making it on their own. Fear that they may not be able to pay their bills. And when things go tough in their job, they blame and complain other people. 

There is nothing wrong about having a job. However, according to MJ Demarco, in his book Millionaire Fastlane, working on a job for money is a slow lane to wealth. Trading our time for money is not enough to achieve financial freedom faster because our time is limited.

Here is the guiding question that we may ask to ourselves:

What would you dare to do if you are guaranteed to succeed?

Go out and always do what you are afraid to do as when you do it often, the fear will vanish.

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Moving Away from Death

I learned from the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius that we just died today and whatever future time that may be given to us is a surplus. I used to think that death is a destination in the future that everyone must prepare for. After learning this new perspective, I realised that we are not living towards an end, but we are living away from the moment that have just died.

It was very deep and meaningful.  The true happiness is in the now. Live moment by moment.